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“Thanks for your reply and your suggestions. We have made further progress: Isabel goes down in her crib for the naps! And she goes to sleep within 5 to 20 minutes, no crying. I owe it all to you – because whatever I do now, I just know HOW TO. I know how to approach change and stay persistent. I am very grateful to you and also proud of Isabel and myself to have come so far.
Now, Isabel goes to sleep by herself at noon for her nap and the evenings have improved all by themselves. Isabel just knows she is going to sleep, she doesn’t fuss and fight anymore. She is still not happy about having to go to sleep, but she accepts sleep much faster. And the time I spend with her in bed in the evenings, even if it’s an hour sometimes before she falls asleep – we talk and sing and cuddle, and we both enjoy it! At night, she wakes up here and there for a cuddle and goes right back to sleep. Just once, I still breastfeed her. That will be the next step, to wean her completely. But as I said – I now know how to!
Thank you very much for the sleep plan and for your help. To be honest, I was so skeptical and reluctant to consult you, and to pay the fee. After reading so many books, I just couldn’t imagine what in the world you could tell me that I hadn’t heard/read yet. But now I am so grateful I did consult you!! I can’t recommend The Baby Sleep Site® highly enough. You have made our lives so much easier. Thank you, thank you, thank you!” -Susanne
“I just wanted to let you know about the progress we’ve had with Isaac’s nighttime sleep over the past few weeks. Last night we only had to go in once to give him a bottle at 3 AM.
This is such a dramatic change for our family from where we were just a few short weeks ago. As you know, Isaac was co-sleeping with one of us every night and waking up at least four times a night for a bottle. We had to bounce him to sleep every time he woke up…which was getting hard as he’s so big and heavy now!
Now he is in his crib, falling asleep and back to sleep on his own. He only asks for one bottle a night now and we’re getting ready to start working towards weaning him off of that one, too! The best part is that my husband and I are sleeping together in our own bed again and everyone seems to be getting more restorative sleep.
We spent most of Isaac’s first year struggling to find a way to get everyone some sleep, and had a few failed sleep training attempts when he was younger. I honestly think he just needed us to be patient … and I really appreciate your support in taking things slow for his sake. I know we’ll have some bumps along the road but you’ve helped us learn the basics of good sleep and I know that will help guide us back to the path when things get rough.
I always read the success stories in Nicole’s newsletter and rolled my eyes at the quick success others were having (‘just two nights and everything’s fixed’). Jealousy and sleep deprivation make me petty, I guess! 🙂 Our success story was NOT fast or easy but I’m so glad to report that we are…after all these long months of trying…a success. Thank you so so SO much for playing such an important role in this victory for our family. I will definitely recommend your services to others who are looking for some support and guidance.” -Megan, Minnesota
“YIPEEEEEE!! My heart is full of joy right now! I cannot sing praises enough of The Baby Sleep Site and you. When people hear ‘sleep training’, there is an expectation that it will be nothing but CIO. But I knew there had to be another way. And though it wasn’t without whining and frustration on both ends, there was another way and you showed it to me. Thank you, thank you, thank you! After all, the books I read trying to figure out a way to work on sleep, I was left desperate and knew I didn’t have the energy or knowledge to try and come up with my own plan. Thank you for showing me the way, and for being so patient with me as well!
Ethan has just put himself to sleep for his first nap of the day! First time!! I left him in his crib, left the room, and came back to him knocked out! Two days ago, he put himself to sleep for his last nap of the day. So I figured we would just work on naps until he felt comfortable. Well yesterday, he put himself to sleep for the last nap AND for bedtime!! Then he only woke twice for feedings, between 6:30 p.m. and 6:15 a.m.!
It is SUCH an amazing victory to know that Ethan feels safe to cry out for me when he needs me, but also safe to fall back asleep when he doesn’t. I am so grateful we did not have to just let him ‘figure it out’ on his own. It’s amazing to be able to coach my son and teach him it’s okay to be alone in his crib, and that I’m always available to him.
I just wanted to share this major victory with you. Ethan is taking about 3.5 hours worth of naps during the day and now sleeping 12 hours at night with 2 feedings. I am so okay with nursing him at night! I love it and am not ready to part with it, but I am so grateful he can put himself back to sleep.
I am SO, SO happy right now. Best money I have ever spent! You are amazing!!!!!!” -Ellana
“I just wanted to let you know about the progress we’ve had with Isaac’s nighttime sleep over the past few weeks. Last night we only had to go in once to give him a bottle at 3 AM.
This is such a dramatic change for our family from where we were just a few short weeks ago. As you know, Isaac was co-sleeping with one of us every night and waking up at least four times a night for a bottle. We had to bounce him to sleep every time he woke up…which was getting hard as he’s so big and heavy now!
Now he is in his crib, falling asleep and back to sleep on his own. He only asks for one bottle a night now and we’re getting ready to start working towards weaning him off of that one, too! The best part is that my husband and I are sleeping together in our own bed again and everyone seems to be getting more restorative sleep.
We spent most of Isaac’s first year struggling to find a way to get everyone some sleep, and had a few failed sleep training attempts when he was younger. I honestly think he just needed us to be patient … and I really appreciate your support in taking things slow for his sake. I know we’ll have some bumps along the road but you’ve helped us learn the basics of good sleep and I know that will help guide us back to the path when things get rough.
I always read the success stories in Nicole’s newsletter and rolled my eyes at the quick success others were having (‘just two nights and everything’s fixed’). Jealousy and sleep deprivation make me petty, I guess! 🙂 Our success story was NOT fast or easy but I’m so glad to report that we are…after all these long months of trying…a success. Thank you so so SO much for playing such an important role in this victory for our family. I will definitely recommend your services to others who are looking for some support and guidance.” -Megan, Minnesota
“YIPEEEEEE!! My heart is full of joy right now! I cannot sing praises enough of The Baby Sleep Site and you. When people hear ‘sleep training’, there is an expectation that it will be nothing but CIO. But I knew there had to be another way. And though it wasn’t without whining and frustration on both ends, there was another way and you showed it to me. Thank you, thank you, thank you! After all, the books I read trying to figure out a way to work on sleep, I was left desperate and knew I didn’t have the energy or knowledge to try and come up with my own plan. Thank you for showing me the way, and for being so patient with me as well!
Ethan has just put himself to sleep for his first nap of the day! First time!! I left him in his crib, left the room, and came back to him knocked out! Two days ago, he put himself to sleep for his last nap of the day. So I figured we would just work on naps until he felt comfortable. Well yesterday, he put himself to sleep for the last nap AND for bedtime!! Then he only woke twice for feedings, between 6:30 p.m. and 6:15 a.m.!
It is SUCH an amazing victory to know that Ethan feels safe to cry out for me when he needs me, but also safe to fall back asleep when he doesn’t. I am so grateful we did not have to just let him ‘figure it out’ on his own. It’s amazing to be able to coach my son and teach him it’s okay to be alone in his crib, and that I’m always available to him.
I just wanted to share this major victory with you. Ethan is taking about 3.5 hours worth of naps during the day and now sleeping 12 hours at night with 2 feedings. I am so okay with nursing him at night! I love it and am not ready to part with it, but I am so grateful he can put himself back to sleep.
I am SO, SO happy right now. Best money I have ever spent! You are amazing!!!!!!” -Ellana
”I tried sleep training when my son was 8 months old and it was horrible. I researched all the sleep training methods before, had bought books on the subject and even attended a sleep training consultation whose method sounded so terrible to me that I just decided to not even try it. The way your e-Book is put together made all the difference. The way you explained sleep training and your understanding and compassion put it all into perspective for me. I felt like I had finally found someone who actually understood what I was going through! It was like you wrote the book just for me. When I read it, I actually cried from relief. It sounds so cliche, but your help has changed my life. I feel like a new person. I am finally in control of my life again and I feel like I can now be the mother to my child that he deserves. I am still working on the naps, although they are much better already too. So I will remain a loyal reader to your site and refer all my mommy friends to you!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH.”
-Charlotte, South Africa, Johannesburg
“I purchased your book and it helped a great deal. Our daughter is sleeping well through the night, and that actually wasn’t our problem. Nap time was the issue and I was beside myself with anguish over it. Your book was great and your email responses were very helpful. We even took a trip to California and back and the napping routine remained fairly consistent. She falls asleep on her own now without fussing and is sleeping 3-4 hours during the day and 11-12 hours at night. Thank you so much!”
-Heather and Jay, Washington, D.C.
“My husband and I were coming towards the end of our rope!! Then we found Nicole. She has been a GODSEND to our family, helping us with step by step advice that is well researched, nurturing and proven effective. She gave us a method that worked for our family, and encouraged us to stay the course. Don’t think about this twice, reach out to Nicole. YOUR LIFE WILL CHANGE!”
-Carolina, Juan and Baby Marcos, Norwalk, Connecticut
”Nicole’s nap e-book has been unbelievably helpful. I have twin girls and I’ve been able to use this book as a resource as my girls have grown and changed. I really like that this book combines the approaches of many well-known sleep books that are out there, and it gives you enough options to figure out what is right for you and your babies. I also like that Nicole offers schedule choices as it shows that she realizes that napping is not ‘one size fits all’, especially important when you have twins! Now my girls are great nappers, which means that we are all happy and well-rested because we are all getting the break that we need!”
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