We receive emails on a regular basis from parents who tell us some version of the same story: they feel TERRIBLE because they have just read something on the internet (or heard something from a friend) that makes them feel terrible about their sleep coaching choices. Nicole remembers one email in particular: I received an e-mail from a client upset about this article expressing frustration about the difference between “cuddlers” and “tamers.” (Disclaimer - I don't endorse this