This article outlines the average 9-month-old baby schedule, including milk feedings for breastfeeding and formula-feeding babies, solids, naps, and nighttime sleep.
9 month old’s sleep
At this age, if you are not lucky enough to have a baby who sleeps through the night, most 9-month-olds can sleep all night without a feeding and take two naps. However, some babies, in my experience, do better with one feeding after 4 or 5 a.m. and sleep longer than not feed and get an early wake-time. I would need to know your specific situation to make a recommendation, but just recognize that all babies are different, but by this age, I would not expect more than 1 feeding, typically, if any at all. Your 9-month-old should be taking 2 naps per day for a total of about 2-3 hours per day plus 11-12 hours at night. If you’re having trouble with naps, you might be interested in helping your baby nap.
All babies vary, but here are some rough schedules you can use to make your own for your unique baby.
I should warn you that I am in the camp that breast milk or formula should be the primary nutrition for the first year and solids come secondary. Below are the amounts we recommend. For more information on starting your baby on solid food, we have a series of blog posts dedicated to the subject. We include recommendations about how and when to start solids, as well as helpful information on food allergies, recommended products, baby-friendly recipes, and more.
Amounts per day:
• At least 3-4 nursing sessions per day or 26-32 ounces formula or combination of both
• 2 servings (1 serving = 1-2 Tablespoons dry) baby cereal
• 1-2 servings grain (1 serving = 1/2 slice bread, 2 crackers, 1/2 cup Cheerios, or 1/2 cup whole grain pasta)
• 2 servings (1 serving = 2-4 Tablespoons) fruit
• 2 servings (1 serving = 2-4 Tablespoons) vegetable
• 2-3 servings (1 serving = 1-2 Tablespoons) protein
• 1 serving Dairy (1 serving = 1/2 cup yogurt, 1/3 cup cottage cheese or 1 oz grated cheese)
• You can also offer cooked egg yolk (but possibly no egg whites until 12 months old due to allergens — check with your doctor)
The first schedule is what I call a “staggered” approach. My first son did better nursing fully and then having solids a bit in between nursing sessions. He was a little hungry but not famished. He just didn’t do well with stopping nursing mid-way to eat solids.
Sample 9 month old schedules
7:00 – Wake and Breast milk or Formula
9:00 – Breakfast
10:00 – Morning Nap (at least 1 hour)
11:00 – Breast milk or Formula
1:00 – Lunch
2:00 – Early Afternoon Nap (at least 1 hour)
3:00 – Breast milk or Formula plus snack
5:00 – Dinner
6:15 – Begin bedtime routine
7:00 – Breastmilk or Formula and Bedtime (goal to be asleep at this time)
If your baby doesn’t mind a more “consolidated” approach to eating, like my second son, here is another type of schedule:
Schedule 2
7:00 – Wake, 1/2 Breast milk / Formula feeding, breakfast and other 1/2 BM / Formula
10:00 – Morning Nap (at least 1 hour)
11:00 – 1/2 BM/Formula, Lunch, and other 1/2 BM/Formula
2:00 – Afternoon Nap (at least 1 hour)
3:00 – BM or Formula Feeding plus snack
5:00 – Dinner and 1/2 BM / Formula feeding
6:15 – Begin bedtime routine
7:00 – Small BM/Formula feeding and Bedtime (goal to be asleep at this time)
Note: When giving any feedings during your bedtime routine, be careful not to create sleep associations.
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Hiya
I’d love brief advice on why my baby might be waking at 4am-5am all of a sudden after sleeping 7pm til 6.30am consistently no feed, and naps being on schedule too. i worked so hard for This schedule and now This has put me in a circle of having an over tired baby and trying to get it back on track. Also the first few times he did it was so out of character (since the 4 month sleep hell) i made the mistake of trying to feed and taking him downstairs. Only to find he didn’t want the bottle anyway!
@Jade – Thank you for reading our post and for sharing with us. Early waking can be a beast! There are so many things that contribute to him waking early, though. I’m assuming he’s 9 months old (or somewhere roundabout based on the title of the post). His daily sleep schedule, how he falls asleep, his environment, his development (a sleep regression is common around this age), his daily feedings, sleep associations, etc – all or some or just one of these could be the culprit. If you haven’t thought about keeping a log of sleep and activities to better pinpoint the issue, that’d be a great first step. You could also consider connecting with one of our sleep consultants for more troubleshooting. You can read more about our team here: https://www.babysleepsite.com/about/ Hang in there, Jade!
8AM-wake up time, BF
8.45- breakfast
10AM- brest feeding
11AM-1PM – nap time
1PM- Brest feeding
1.45PM- lunch
3PM- brest feeding
4.30PM-snack time
5PM – 6PM- Nap time
6PM – brest feed
7PM-Dinner
9Pm brest feed and goes to sleep
Hi Hema,
Thanks so much for adding your schedule to the post! Many families love to know what others are doing, so I’m sure they’ll find another 9 month-old schedule very helpful. We appreciate your support of The Baby Sleep Site!
My daughter is almost 10 months old and I think she associates formula feeding with sleep. I cant get her to nap without having a bottle.
Her routine is
7am awake and bottle
9am breakfast
11am bottle and nap
1pm lunch
3pm bottle and nap
5pm evening meal
Bedtime routine
7pm bottle and sleep (on a good day)
Can I do anything to change my routine so that she does not rely on a bottle to nap?
She sleeps well during the night, sometimes waking before 1am for dummy as teething but this is manageable for us.
Thank you
@Jade – Thank you for reading and for sharing with us. Sleep associations like needing to feed in order to be able to sleep are very, very common and almost happens naturally as many of us like the idea of feeding before sleep to keep those little tummies full throughout sleep. To help ease your way into breaking her from this association, you could work to gradually remove the bottle from directly before sleep time by introducing other tasks between the bottle and sleep (diaper change, story, etc.). We have dozens of articles available on the site for ways to get started and get through sleep coaching and various ways to decide on a method that I know will be helpful to you. Here’s one that can get you started: https://www.babysleepsite.com/sleep-training/sleep-training-5-easy-ways-to-start/ Please don’t hesitate to let us know if you need or would like more support, Jade. Hang in there!
Having such a hard time with our 9 month olds night times at present
Current schedule
6.30-7 up breastfeed
8am breakfast
9.30-10am breastfeed and nap until
11.30 -12
12 breastfeed
1.30 lunch
2.30 breastfeed and nap
5pm wake and bf
5.30 dinner
6.30 bath bed by 7.30
9pm screaming awake won’t settle unless bf
Have tried the pick up put down method but he does not calm down and screams until he is choking. This goes on every two-3 hours and has done since he was born. Also involving at least two nappy changes as he gets very wet.
He shares a room with our 3 yr old who luckily sleeps through his non stop waking so far.
My partner has to get up at 4am for work so I’m mindful of trying to keep him quiet and invariably he ends up in bed with us at 3am so I don’t have to keep walking the landing in the dark.
He has had reflux and constant colds, also has a soother but only to go to sleep with
Any advice would be greatly received we don’t have the money for a package.
Hi @Elizabeth –
Thank you for writing us today and I am sorry to hear about your baby’s sleep issues and his crying before bed and night wakings! It sounds like he needs some help learning how to fall asleep on his own, and the pick-up-put down method does not work for some babies. Some babies get “angry” and cry more! You may want to try different ways of helping him learn to fall asleep. We have hundreds of articles on our blog that can help you learn more, and a great search bar so that you can search our site for specific help! We help families with these same issues, and we’d love to help you too if things do not smooth out!
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Hang in there Elizabeth!!
This entire site is so helpful!!! Thanks!
My son just turn 9 month two days ago hes the best baby he sleep all night and he wake up around 8 am hes a very happy baby at the beginning he did have a few night with trouble but after that hes doing just find i want to see what kind of solid food will be good and nutrient for him he eat mash potato and fruits but i will like to know about meats and vegetables
Hi Isa,
Thank you for commenting on The Baby Sleep Site! I’m so glad to hear your son is sleeping so well for you 🙂 We mostly work with baby sleep an would refer you to your pediatrician for questions about feeding. We do have a chart on when to introduce certain kinds of solids, like meat, if that would be helpful: https://www.babysleepsite.com/baby-solids-how/solid-food-feeding-schedule/
Good luck!
My 9 month old is a terrible sleeper at night. He has always been a late sleeper. (Sleeping at 2 am was normal for him at 3 months because of mine and my husbands schedules) His typical schedule as of lately has been sleeping at 730/8 AM until about 6 PM, nap at 730 PM until 1030 PM, another nap at 12 Am until 2ish AM and then awake until he goes back to sleep again. Sometimes taking another nap between 2 and 4 AM. His sleep is very backwards. He’s up at night and sleeps during the day. I have tried everything to change it but nothing has helped. What do I do?
Hi @Princess – Thank you for writing, and I am sorry that you are struggling with your 9 month old’s schedule! This schedule is likely very different than the one that you want him to have, and because you’ve already tried changing this on your own, and since you want to flip the schedule around completely, I think it would be a good idea to get one on one help from a Sleep Consultant here to help you through this in a way that will disrupt all of your sleep the least! She can help you with specific plans that you can follow, and help all along the way too!
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I hope that we can have the opportunity to help your family sleep! Please let me know if you have any additional questions.
Hi Rabiya here.
My son is 9 months and 15 days old. He wakeup 7.30 am have breastfeed and sleeps again then at 8.30 or 9 am wakes up has his breakfast and plays for while. Later on sleeps at 10.30 for about 15 to 20 mins. Then sleeps at 1 pm for again 10 to 20 mins. He takes 2 or 3 naps a day but all are about 1 hour a day. And sleeps at 10 pm or 11 pm at night. I am so worried about his sleeping routine. Please guide me what to do. Our days are long then uk and usa.
Hope I’ll get a guide for my lil one
Hi @Rabiya – Thank you for writing to us. I’m sorry to hear your family is not sleeping well! It does sounds like your little guy may need a bit more sleep, and we’d love to help!
Based on what you have shared and wanting a guide just for you, I would recommend that you consider our Express Sleep Plan. Our Express Sleep Plan provides custom sleep – instantly. Once you purchase an Express Sleep Plan, you will take a brief survey and provide easy information about your son, and your current sleep issues. Then, once you hit the ‘Submit’ button, your plan will be ready instantly – and your Plan will include a schedule just for you! You will be able to read the plan immediately, and start putting the strategies to work. You can learn more about the Express Sleep Plan here: https://www.babysleepsite.com/express-sleep-plan/
Hang in there Rabiya!
So my 8-9 month old we are having problems with naps he has a schedual very similer to your first list but he will cry for like 20-30 mins before finally falling asleep for his naps and only sleep like 20-30 mins twice a day. How do I get him to sleep longer. If I sleep with him he will sleep for 1.5 hrs I just can’t get him to in his crib ?
Hi Miranda,
Thank you for using The Baby Sleep Site as a resource! I’m sorry to hear you’re struggling with naps. We do have an article on lengthening naps here that I hope will help: https://www.babysleepsite.com/baby-naps-2/short-baby-naps-explained/
And an article on transitioning from co-sleeping into the crib here: https://www.babysleepsite.com/sleep-training/co-sleeping-transition-how-to/
I hope these will help you, but please get in touch if you need further assistance. Good luck!
My daughter will only nap during the day for 30 minutes at a time. She also wakes up 30 minutes after I have put her to bed for more comfort feeding. She is BF and has always refused a bottle. She is then awake 4-5 times during the night. Each time she wakes she wants to feed back to sleep again. How will I break this cycle? And how do I get her to nap for longer than 30 minutes?
Hi @Trudy Burns, thanks for writing to us. I am sorry you’ve been struggling so much with your daughter’s sleep. Since there are several things going on I personally would focus on one area (whichever seems more beneficial first – perhaps nights so you can at least get some sleep too) and then once you’ve got that down, start focusing on the next. Here is a link to download a free guide with tips to help your baby sleep through the night: https://www.babysleepsite.com/sleep-through-night-free-ebook/
Pay attention to the sleep associations section as I am going to guess that’s a big factor at play here (I went through this with my son as well, who I also EBF). If you find you need more help, please know we are here! We have a TON of resources from exclusives articles and ebooks that go more in-depth than our free guides and articles, all the way to one-on-one personalized consulting with a sleep consultant and lots of stuff in between. If you want more information on any of our additional resources and services, please email us directly anytime at contact@babysleepsite.com and we can help you more from there. Hang in there!
Hi. I have a 9 months old baby boy that gives me so much trouble with his sleeping! He takes nap very well during the day! Will say the total of 4 hours nap ! He goes to bed a 10 pm but he doesnt sleep well! He get up every 45 min to 1 hour and crying! I really so t know what to do with this situation!
@Susan – thank you for writing to us. I’m so sorry to hear your 9 month old has been giving you so much trouble! We actually have a free guide with tips to help your baby sleep through the night, so be sure to sign up to download it here: https://www.babysleepsite.com/sleep-through-night-free-ebook/ Hopefully the guide gives you some insight to what could be the cause and an idea of where to start. If you need more help or feel overwhelmed of what to do from there, let us know! We have an incredible team of sleep consultants that can walk through this with you so that you can all start getting some much needed sleep. Here is a link to read about our personalized consulting options: https://www.babysleepsite.com/baby-toddler-sleep-consulting-services/
If you have any questions about that or the other resources we have available (that don’t go as in depth as a Personalized Package would) then we would be happy to explain those as well. You can contact us directly anytime at contact@babysleepsite.com
Hang in there!
My 9month old sleeps 7pm-7am however he always fights me on naps. I tried warily (8:30) for the first nap he will just cry and cry I try later (9:30/10) he cries. He has 4 bottles a day and solids 3 times a day but his naps the last month have been horrible. He is clearly tired but nothing I do will help him nap
Hi @Elyse – Thank you for writing to us! I am sorry to hear about your 9 month old’s sleep issues with naps recently, but please know that you are not alone! Don’t give up and keep on offering those naps, especially if he skips one! You may want to consider our eBook: Mastering Naps and Schedules. This book is perfect for helping you teach your child healthy napping habits.
If you buy the ebook, you also have the option to purchase the book along with an Express Sleep Plan. The Express Plan is great for families that want sleep help that is more customized than what you will find in a book or an article, and feel confident about implementing the plan at home without a consultant’s help. Simply fill out a brief survey, hit the Submit button, and your Express Sleep Plan will be ready instantly – no waiting!
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I hope that things smooth out soon! Please let us know if you have any questions!
Help! My 9 month old daughter only sleeps 3-5 hours and wakes up. I give her a bottle and she sleeps 2-3 more hours and then shes up for about 4 hours then takes a morning nap that is 1-2 hours. I need some solid sleep! My first child slept around 12 hours straight very early.
@Kylie – Thank you for sharing with us – isn’t it crazy how different one child’s sleep can be from the other! Mind boggling and frustrating at times, we know! You don’t give many details on how your little girl falls asleep or how long this has been going on. Perhaps check out this article on helping your 9 month old sleep better – some tips may be useful to you: https://www.babysleepsite.com/how-to-get-my-baby-to-sleep/how-to-get-my-9-or-10-month-old-to-sleep/ Hang in there!
My 9 month old used to wake between 6 & 630 and now enjoys being up for the day between 5 & 530… he is breast fed. He nurses either 545 or 645 then cereal with fruit an hour later. Then naps usually 3 hours after wake up for 1-2 hours depending on the day. Then has a 4 oz bottle. An hour later he has a veggie and puffs. Sometimes he naps again 3 hours after wake up(ish). Nurses around 2/3 depending on the day. The dinner at 5 he gets a protein puréed with a veggie or fruit cereal. Then bedtime between 7&8 he typically nursing to sleep. This was working for quite some time I don’t know what changed. I feel badly like he isn’t getting enough rest. No matter what time he goes to bed he’s up at the same time
Hi @Lauren, thanks for writing to us. I’m sorry you’ve recently been struggling with early wake ups with your 9 month old. There is a little regression they go through at this age, so hopefully things will smooth out in a few weeks. Here is a link to an article with a few reasons why your baby may be waking up early, so you may want to read through it to see if you are missing anything: https://www.babysleepsite.com/how-we-sleep/baby-waking-too-early/
If you still can’t figure it out, let us know! We can look into a full sleep history for him in one of our Personalized Sleep Consultations and can help you figure out where the issue is and how to tweak his schedule to get him sleeping in to an appropriate time in the morning again. Here is a link to read more about that if you are interested: https://www.babysleepsite.com/baby-toddler-sleep-consulting-services/
I hope things resolve for you soon! Hang in there!
I have a 9 month old boy and this is his schedule:
7:30-8:00 formula
10:00-11:00 nap maybe
11:00 fruits
1:00- 3:00 lunch meat and veggies
4:00-7:00 dinner same as lunch
8:00-10:00 bed time routine and some pay time
10:00 formula/sleep through night!
He is also teething so this is not a standard schedule! Today for example he is been sleeping for 3 hours straight! 1-4! I don’t know if there is anything wrong with it or is normal to not wake up for feeding!
Hi Diana –
Thank you for writing to us and for using The Baby Sleep Site as a resource for sleep! 9 month old babies typically have two naps per day, as noted in this article. While it is common to have “off days” (especially while teething!) and to sleep through a feed here and there, sleeping too much in the day can make nights tougher. Do make this schedule your own and do what works best for you and your family, and thanks for reading!
Does the time my baby wakes effect bedtime. My LO goes to sleep at 6:30-7 (usually closer to 7) and is up at 5:45. I feel like because she is up so early maybe she should go to bed earlier. Especially since her last nap ends around 2.
Hi Kristen,
Thanks for your comment! Yes, the time your baby wakes will affect her ideal nap times and bedtime. We have a custom schedule generator to help you adjust the sample schedule to better reflect your family’s schedule: https://www.babysleepsite.com/baby-toddler-schedule-maker/
I hope it will help!
How do you know whether your baby wakes in the 5 o clock hour and will go back to sleep versus ready to start the day? You mention:
“Although many babies can go all night without a single feeding, in my experience, some do better with one feeding after 4 or 5 a.m. and sleep longer than not feed and get an early wake-time. I would need to know your specific situation to make a recommendation, but just recognize that all babies are different.”
I’ve tried to feed and put him back in the crib..sometimes he just cries and moves around the crib..sometimes sleeps but only a short amount of time (30 mins if I’m lucky).
After he has milk around 5 o clock hour (am), he usually appears awake. Should I just keep putting him back in the crib every morning anyways? I’m trying to fix very early wakings but not sure what to do..he seems to only sleep 9-10 hours a night
Hi @Fiona, thanks for writing. I am sorry you’ve been experiencing early wakings! Here is an article that gives some tips specifically in regards to early waking that may help you figure out where the issue is coming from: https://www.babysleepsite.com/how-we-sleep/baby-waking-too-early/
I hope this helps! If you can’t figure it out and need more help, please contact us directly at contact@babysleepsite.com and we can help point you in the direction of other resources that can help. Hang in there!
Hi I have a 9mth old girl, who is breastfed and has solids as well…I am up literally all night sitting up feeding as she does not sleep through the night up every half hr on a good night and during the day on a good day she will have half hr-1hr sleep if I’m lucky so exhausted tried Just putting her down but she just screams soon as she gets put down…she has been like this since birth has only ever slept 4hrs during the night once and that was at 6wks old
@Chantelle – Thank you for reading and for sharing with us. We’re so sorry to hear that your little girl has had such a tough road with sleep – we know how exhausted you both must be! If you haven’t considered any form of sleep coaching yet, please check out this brief article on how to get started: https://www.babysleepsite.com/sleep-training/baby-sleep-training-what-when-how-get-started-now/ Please let us know if we can be of any help to you during this journey as our only goal is to help your family sleep better!
My almost 9 months old son goes to bed with 8 oz. formal with 2 tablespoon of baby cereal added at 10pm per our family’s preferences. He wakes between 7:30-9 am. He gets a 7-9 ounce bottle of formula every 4-5 hours and averages 4-5 bottles a day and 1 sitting of baby food with a jar of fruit and a jar of vegetables. I’m slowly introducing finger foods but he does extremely well with baby food and no allergies thus far. He gets his 2 naps of 1-2 hours a day. So far this works for us as we have a 24 pound 30 inch baby boy!!! The more solids I introduce will allow me to cut back to 7 ounce bottles as I can give him snacks in between. Every baby is different so as long as your baby is healthy and getting enough breast milk/ formula and adequate sleep you’re probably doing a great job!
@Devin – Thank you for reading and for sharing with us. It sounds like this indeed is working well for you all! We’re so glad to hear your little guy is eating and sleeping so well! Thank you, again, for sharing!
Hi,
I have a 9 month old. She was always on a schedule very similar to your examples. The only thing was we were rocking her to sleep for 10-15 min and lay her down to her crib. And we were OK with that. BUT, last week she had a cold and wanted to sleep in our arms. Now we need to rock her for hours. Whenever we lay her down, she wakes up, stands up in her crib and cries. What should we do?
If I work with you for consultation, is cry the only way? I don’t want her to cry to sleep.
Thank you.
@Hil – Thank you for stopping by our sleepy little village! I’m so sorry to hear that your little girl’s sleep seemed to regress once she got sick – unfortunately, this is a very common thing that happens with babies who otherwise sleep well. Please rest assured that our team is made up of all moms and we all wish to limit tears as much as possible (we’ve all been where you are!) so, no, a full-on crying method is NOT the only way and is rarely how we guide our families, unless it’s their preference. We’d love to work more with your family and help you all get back on track. You can read about our services here:https://www.babysleepsite.com/services or if you would like more help deciding on which package will work best, reach out to our Client Relations team here and they can help you with your choices:https://www.babysleepsite.com/contact Hang in there, Hil.
Hi,
Thanks for sample routine.
No day is same here, no routine yet. I find our 9 months old getting very upset last few evenings.
I’m getting myself ready to start a routine from tomorrow morning, week before our 4 year old daughter goes back to school.
We’ve 2 parties on next week, 1 in the house (just tea and cake).
How do you adjust the bedtime to family occasions?
Hi @Mumoftwo – thank you for writing to us! Juggling schedules can be so difficult, and working around family gatherings is something I’ve had to deal with many times. It is going to totally depend on your baby how flexible they can be, but I would first get your baby on a schedule so their sleep is predictable, and during this time, I would recommend not going “off book” and taking any outings that would disrupt their scheduled naps and bedtime. For us, as my baby got older, it has become easier to push him past bedtime a little, but there have been many times I’ve had to leave an event early (leaving my husband and my older son to party on!) to get the baby home to bed. I take it on a case by case basis, personally. If you want specific help for these situations, let us know and we’d be happy to help. We’d love to work with you on getting a schedule in place and any other sleep issues that may be going on. To work with us directly please visit here: https://www.babysleepsite.com/baby-toddler-sleep-consulting-services/
I hope this helps!
Thank you Janelle.
Should nap times be the same time every day, or should I adjust them based on the time my baby woke up? For example, on the days he sleeps 7pm-6am, I make naps 9 and 1? And on the days he sleeps 7pm-7am I make naps 10 and 2? Or is it always 10 and 2, no matter what?
Hi @Steph, thanks for your comment! It is likely if he woke at 6 that you would need to move the nap earlier. 😉 Whenever my boys were small I would watch them and if they started acting ready for a nap and it was too early for our normal schedule, I wouldn’t push them to stay up, and straight to bed they would go! I hope that helps. 🙂
I have twin boys, 9 months old.
7am Formula
8am Breakfast
**play time**
930am Nap
11am Formula
12pm Lunch
**play time**
1pm Nap
2pm Formula
**play time**
4pm Optional 30-45 minute nap
5pm Formula
7pm Dinner
730pm in bed
Thank you @Amanda Campbell for sharing the schedule that is working for your boys!