The son this website was inspired by is a MUCH better sleeper than when he was a baby, but he will probably never be a perfect sleeper and I have grown to just accept that (maybe I will have to drag him out of bed as a teenager — we’ll see). My son is sensitive to schedule and routine changes and is, in general, a light sleeper. Last week he started to have a few night-wakings every night for 3 nights, which nowadays is unusual. When he was 4 months old it was common, expected and highly frustrating. At 3, it is no less frustrating and probably more tiring since I’m no longer used to it.
It was my own article last week that helped me figure out what had changed. I wrote my article about baby temperament and sensitivity, and it reminded me just how sensitive he is/was to temperature. And, it was 2-3 nights prior that we thought it was very cold at night and we put thermals on underneath his fleece footed PJ’s. Now that he’s older, he keeps the sheet and blanket on him a lot better, so he was getting too hot those few nights! Boy was I happy to figure it out! You’d think he would say “Mommy I’m too hot”, but I don’t think he realized why he was waking up. Unfortunately, he still has a bad night here and there (nightmares, insomnia, etc. — which I hope to write about in the future), but at least he doesn’t get up most nights and not numerous times EACH night like last week!
So, I did some homework so I could pass on the ideal temperature your baby or toddler’s room should be when he sleeps, so hopefully, my experience again will help others.
Temperature and SIDS
It is very important that you not overheat your newborn when she sleeps as it increases the risk of SIDS. It has also been shown that using a fan can decrease the risk of SIDS by 72%.
Body Temperature
Our internal body clock controls our body temperature and when our temperature is high, like during the day, our bodies are more awake. We all have a dip in body temperature in the afternoon and we feel sleepy (Ferber calls this the “afternoon dip”). At night, when the sun goes down, our body temperature starts to drop and Melatonin (a hormone) is released in our bodies inducing sleep. Our temperature is lowest at night until around 4 a.m. our bodies start to prepare to wake up. Many parents complain about their baby’s sleep in the early morning hours. It’s the lightest sleep of the night.
At what temperature to set your thermostat
The ideal room temperature is between 65 and 70 degrees Fahrenheit (or 18.3 to 21.1 Celsius), but I recommend you use these numbers as a starting point. In my experience of over 10 years, the ideal temperature for your family will vary a little, depending on you (and your baby) and how many blankets you use. Keep in mind that your child won’t learn to keep a cover on all night until past 18-24 months.
With the air conditioning on, 72 degrees can feel cold whereas if you put your thermostat to 72 with the heater, it will probably be too hot. In the summer, at night, we keep our thermostat at 72 degrees Fahrenheit and during the winter we set it to 63 degrees Fahrenheit. Your baby or toddler’s skin should feel cool to the touch, but not frigid like their fingers are ice cubes. And, generally, your child should never be sweating.
My youngest, we put on a onesie t-shirt, thermal pajamas and then fleece pajamas over those this winter. For my eldest, we put just Fleece footed pajamas and he has a sheet and comforter on. In the summer, generally, pajamas and a sleep sack (or sheet and comforter) are sufficient.
I didn’t find any scientific research about this (though I’m sure it’s out there), but if our body temperature being higher in the day keeps us awake, I would venture to guess that my son was waking up partially because his body temperature was too high as much as it was because he may or may not have been uncomfortable. The moral of the story is to keep the kids warm, but not too warm, and not too cold, either, yet another parenting magic trick.
At what temperature do you keep your thermostat?
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What a problem. Our children, parents of our grandchild, insist on no blankets for their 10 month old. When we keep our grandchild we have a terrible problem. My husband and I can not sleep unless the thermostat is set no higher than 68 to 69 at night and that’s with sleeping with nothing on except underwear. The baby is 10 months and too old for a sleep blanket. He gets cold at those temps. I guess we are just going to tell our son we will not keep the grandchild any longer at night. Also, the child is still waking at 4:30 at night and they seem to think there is no problem with that.
Hi @Teresa O Lewis, thanks for writing to us about your grandson. I’m sorry to hear you may need to stop keeping him over night, but the silver lining is it is a time that will pass fairly soon in the grand scheme of things. I don’t know if you’ve tried it, but perhaps you could get the baby some special jammies (like those footed fleece pajamas) to wear just when he’s at grandma and grandpa’s house. I live in Florida so we don’t have a TON of cold nights, but those have been great for my kids on nights it’s cold but we don’t feel it’s necessary to keep the heat on. You could even put a pair of socks on him before putting the pajamas on just to add an extra layer and keep him warmer that way.
In regards to the 4:30 waking, some babies this age do still need to wake 1x a night for a feeding until closer to 12 months, but if he is starting his day at this time that wouldn’t be quite right. If that’s the case, here is a link to an article that may help them out if they’re interested: https://www.babysleepsite.com/how-we-sleep/baby-waking-too-early/
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I need advice we have family
2 elderly people
One infant
30 year old
What’s the best temperature
I told my grandparents 64 but they say it’s too cold for them how can I get it to the point as an agreement
My baby sleeps with onies
I sleep with shorts and tank top
I have thermometer in my room
I like to keep it around 61
Me my baby cosleep so we bounce heat off of each other
Hi @Megan Zaragoza, thanks for writing to us. I’m sorry your household is not in agreement over the temperature. I would just suggest finding a compromise to help everyone be comfortable, which may be meeting in the middle, or that some people get floor fans or heaters, depending on the situation. Good luck, I hope you find a happy medium with everyone!
Does the body temperature of a baby increase when falling asleep on the chest of a woman and if it does or doesn’t does it cause the baby to sweat thank you
Hi @David – Thank you for writing! If baby is sleeping on a caregiver’s chest, yes, the body heat from the both of them may cause parent or baby to get warmer and to sweat a little! This would depend on the temperature in the air, as well as clothing being worn too. : )
We have a thermometer in our 8-month-old’s room and try to keep the temp at 69 or 70. However, the temperature changes drastically at night, and we’re afraid to go in and check because he is such a light sleeper. Just the click of the door opening will wake him sometimes. Thanks for all of the experiences.
Karin, I love the idea of a remote thermometer! Where did you get it?
I was just wondering, at what age to you stop adding that extra layer to keep them warm and have them wear just the same clothes as us?
My daughter is 15months old and her room is warmer than ours, (in summer it’s a horrible 28 degrees celcius at night in there) which makes it hard for me to be sure she’s not too hot without actually being in the room myself. I don’t want to give her that extra layer, as I’ve read many times, in case it’s too hot… I also read that too much heat induces bad dreams and I REALLY don’t want to do that lol.
@Rebecca I can attest to when my son is too warm, he seems to have more nightmares, too. We kept an extra layer on our son until he was in a regular bed and when he started keeping (most of) the covers on most of the night. Our younger son is still in extra layers because he doesn’t keep a blanket on, yet, and he’ll be 2 in February. Hope this helps!
That’s all helpful to read. I got a space heater, but I’m too paranoid to let it run while she’s asleep. So I run it before, then turn it off. I think it has helped. The spot where she sleeps was about 60 degrees. Brrrr.
I bought a remote thermometer to monitor the temperature…the thermometer stays in her room and digital readout piece is in our room. It gives me piece of mind because I was worrying about the same thing. Her room is chillier than the rest of the house, but luckily we have a space heater in there, which we keep at about about 67-68 degrees…that seems to be best for her. I feel like the few nights it got hotter than that, she didn’t sleep as well, so I’m happy to hear the same from the rest of you. We dress her in PJs (weight depending upon temp) and then use a fleece sleep sack, which is great.
My son’s room is colder than ours, even though the thermostat says 70 it feels much colder than that. We started using a space heater in his room at night, and he is now sleeping better. In fact at almost 11 months, he’s finally sleeping through the night! Now I wonder if he’s been waking up because it was too cold?! He’s little hands are now warm. 🙂
@Donna Thank you for sharing your experience.
@Lainie Yes, I would think they would wake up if they are too cold just the same as if they were too hot. If you’re comfortable, it’s harder to sleep. You might try one more layer on her, but I’m not sure what she’s wearing now. They say to put one more layer on them than you have on.
Our thermostat is at about 68, but where she sleeps is freezing. Do they wake up if they’re too cold, too? I’m afraid to bundle her up too much because I don’t want her to get too warm. But when she wakes up in the middle of the night (presumably to eat, but maybe cause of the temperature) her little hands and lower arms are cold, and sometimes her feet are too. Should I put more clothes on her?
We too keep the thermostat at 68 degrees. My husband was concerned about the proper temperature when our daughter was a baby and asked her doctor. He said not below 68 degrees overnight. Now that she is in a big girl bed we have adjusted her winter pajamas to include fleece and/or socks on the coldest of nights and regular cotton on the warmer nights.